Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Levels of intimacy
People need intimacy. I don’t know what the reason for people to have it but what I know for sure is that there is no such a person who would feel okay about the lack of it in his or her life. Though, there are different kinds of intimacy and there are actually such kinds you may not recognize as intimacy. There are people who make out just like that because they need this physical feeling and they need this physical activity. It is the lowest level of intimacy and to my mind there is no way to call it intimacy, it is more like an exercise or something. And the second level of intimacy is when people care about a person they make out with. They are nit people who are ready to have intimacy with any person they see but they have chosen this one and they need him or her right now. But, this kind is also more of physical feelings people have. And the third level of intimacy is colored with emotional intimacy people have and when they are making out it is the emotional stress they need and the real pleasure for them.