Friday, April 24, 2009

What you should do if your wife lost her emotional intimacy

I have heard a talk of two of my colleagues in the canteen who probably didn’t realize that I hear them. One complained to another that he is all horny and turned on all the time and his wife started not to show much response when they making love. He asked his friend for an advice of some women’s Viagra!

It was sadly to hear and even more sadly not be able to come and talk to him about what I can recommend him to do. So when I came I put my computer on and now writing all you husbands in the same situation my hearted advice what to do.

You guys seem to me to confuse sexual intimacy with emotional one. That guy who sat in the canteen I know what his wife is when she comes home after work she sees tons of things to do in the house, kids and you to feed then maybe half an hour of TV and after that she wants only sleeping. To make her feel emotional intimacy you need to get her out of this everyday routine. Don’t you remember yourself when you were trying to get your arm under her skirt first time! Make her feel that she is what you care of! Try to get rid of everyday house work problem inviting a cleaning service. When your wife comes home and sees that she is free from everyday home routine invite her to place outsides, to the restaurant or organize a picnic for only two of you. Don’t be too fast with your desires when she would see that you’ve done all that for her and be admired: or she would feel bought and used. Give her a time to feel the intimacy and then her desire would rise to your level.

I hope that one of you guys would hear what I am roaring here! Good luck and love your wives!